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Pickles and Ice Cream Cookbook

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Pickles and Ice Cream is a cookbook featuring bizarre pregnancy cravings. It contains random recipes like “Oreos and Toothpaste” or “Tomato Soup with M&Ms.” The finished food creations were then  photographed like gourmet meals and feature short stories about the women who craved them. Hungry much?

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Now, I never had any crazy cravings during either of my two pregnancies, but I certainly know some women who have…. So I love that this book takes a look at some of the most bizarre and brings them to life. The book is beautifully done with vibrant photos and honest, funny reviews on the various “dishes.” And — no, I’m not pregnant, but there must be something in the water because, I’ve recently had more than a handful of finds announce their pregnancies! At any rate, it’s a fun cookbook that would be the perfect addition to a home that’s expecting…or can relate.

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Written by award-winning copywriter Vicky Jacob-Ebbinghaus and RPA art director Juarez Rodrigues, the strangely unique book contains a collection of 70 of the most outlandish things moms-to-be have craved during their pregnancy. During their research, they looked at around 50,000 pregnancy cravings from all over the world. They then created a list of the best, worst and most random pregnancy cravings and began shopping for the recipes, which proved challenging, such as when they needed to get cement from a condemned building or a pickled pig’s foot or lamb’s eyes. Press play below to check out some brave souls who dared to take a taste!!

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What’s Up with the Thrush?

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One of the not so fond memories I have from being the Mom of a newborn, the second time around, is that my poor little baby had to deal with “thrush.” What is that you may ask…

According to KidsHealth:

“Oral thrush is a very common infection in infants that causes irritation in and around a baby’s mouth. It is caused by the overgrowth of a yeast (a type of fungus) called Candida albicans.”

I remember when I first noticed that my baby son had something that didn’t look quite right going on in his mouth, we took him to his pediatrician who assured us it was common and sent us to the pharmacy with a prescription to take care of it. In hindsight, no it wasn’t a big deal, but it wasn’t fun to deal with either. It took a couple repeat trips and a change in treatment for us to beat the thrush. WE had to first sterilize all his bottles, nipples and pacifiers, before eventually throwing them all out to start new again!

They say it doesn’t hurt the babies, but it sure doesn’t look like something you’d want. I will spar you an graphic photos, google it if you choose…

Oral thrush in babies is common and usually harmless fungal infection in the mouth. Symptoms to look out for include:

  • White spots or patches in and around the baby’s mouth. Check their gums, roof of the mouth and inside their cheeks.
  • Diaper rash
  • A sore mouth and tongue and/or difficulty swallowing
  • Poor appetite

I know it’s kind of a “random” topic to write about  now that my baby is on the verge of turning 2, but I’ve had this “draft” in my rundown for a while. I remember doing online searches to find a remedy and being that Mom who just wanted to identify with someone else who was going through it. I saw forums that talked about Gentian Violet – I never did it, and I even took to cleaning out his mouth myself using a dry cloth. I mean it wasn’t a big deal and eventually did go away, but it’s just one of those things that was unexpected and a pain to get rid of… If it’s something you are dealing with and you don’t think it’s going away, please be sure to ask an expert/doctor for advice.

 

 

Baby Gear Product Roundup

I recently hosted a “Baby Gear Product Roundup” on my show the other day, with a look at some of the newest and coolest gear designed with baby in mind. When it comes to baby stuff, there is SO MUCH out there, and I had to squeeze in some of my favs in the few minutes we had…so watch to see some of the “must have” items, from cute to innovative, and the downright necessary!

Here’s the rundown with links of the featured items:

Beyond Junior Y
http://www.abiie.com/

Little Tikes Cozy Coupe Bouncer and Backpack
us.diono.com/littletikes

Soap Sox
www.soapsoxkids.com

Whale Pod
http://www.pishposhbaby.com/

Boon Bathtub
http://www.pishposhbaby.com 

Nested Bean Zen Swaddle
www.nestedbean.com

Boppy
www.boppy.com

Beebo
www.thebeebo.com

I See Me Books
www.iseeme.com
Use discount code “HAMPTON” for 20% off any order at iseeme.com, exp 5/15

Cetaphil Lotion & Diaper Cream
http://www.cetaphil.com

Baby Magic
http://www.babymagic.com

The AGE Debate: Months vs. Years

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Our pediatrician’s office called me to schedule my older baby’s 30 month wellness check, and that’s when it hit me…30 MONTHS! My first born is growing and “aging” so quickly. And so I started thinking, it’d be really weird to tell people he’s “30 months” now as opposed to just saying 2 1/2, right?

I hear a lot of other Moms say it gets confusing once the babes hit the “toddler” period. When they turn ONE, do you respond with “1” when people inquire about their age?? Or do you go with the months as you had since infancy, gleefully announcing every month milestone with a photo?! But once they hit that 12 month mark, there can be a debate on if you still go by months, or just stick with the “year,” now that you can quantify it that way.

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Well, I’ve stuck with months…often having to translate and compute the “year” equivalent for folks! haha! Interestingly enough when I tell people my kids are “53 weeks” apart – and I think it’d be easy quick math, I still end up saying “exactly one year, one week” apart…but I digress. My other half has maintained just say 1 or 2…actually he’s been adding the 1/2 to whatever each of their “year” ages are since before they even hit the technical marks…rushing along the development. But, I on the other hand like to be very exact and I’ve stuck with for example: “my baby is 16 months and his big brother is 28 months.”

Maybe it’s one of those men vs.  women ways of thinking, but two kids can be “1,” but a 13 month old who is ONE is not going to be as developed as a ONE year old who is 16 or 17 months, so yeah… it may get confusing at times, but I say it’s perfectly okay to give out their month ages…until of course they hit the BIG 3-0 (months)!!  Mamas, I KNOW you feel me on this one, right?

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So, all this to say my little man is quickly becoming a big man, both literally and figuratively. Now that he is officially 2 1/2, I can’t “baby” him down announcing his age with months, it’s pretty much those solid numbers from here on out. And, for me, those numbers really make a difference!

Mommy Guilt

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Mommy guilt. It’s tough. Ever since I started working full time again, it’s been an added weight on my shoulders, in my mind and on my spirit. I try to shake it, stay busy and tell myself that it’s for their benefit that I’m working and it’s setting a good example for them, to have a “working Mommy.” However, no matter how I try to spin it and remind myself that it’s OKAY to be away, do me and dedicate time to my career, the guilt has its way of creeping in…and turning into stress!

I’ve brought the subject up with my circle of Mommy friends, and many of them say it never really goes away. Even the Moms who have older children…they claim it’s just something you get used to, and since you can’t really get rid of it, you just deal. I think a lot of my guilt has to do with the pressure I put on myself…the thoughts and opinions I form of myself, as it relates to being with my boys, along with the sense of obligation I feel to parent a certain way.

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I was pretty much living the stay at home Mom life throughout my first pregnancy, and then subsequently my second pregnancy, which coincided with the first one’s infancy! I stepped back into the workplace and a full-time, working outside the home role, when my younger baby was just shy of his 1st birthday. I had been working from home, freelancing while I was staying home, but it’s such a difference when you have a flexible schedule and can make being home the first priority. Now that I have a daily  schedule where the alarm goes off at 6am to start my M-F routine, with deadlines to meet and a time frame where I have to be somewhere…the Mommy guilt hits hard!

There are mornings when my babies want to cuddle, or when I can hear their cries in the distance as I walk out the door to start the day. It breaks my heart to not be able to sit there and enjoy the moment — I know they won’t want for me this way forever. There are afternoons when I come home to open arms and whiny voices who unleash a day’s worth of pent up emotions that yearned for Mommy attention all day long. It’s like as soon as I walk in the door, I have to do a 180, switch hats and there’s no time to decompress or transition…just have to radiate the Mommy love and comfort the way they want (and need) it. Those are the moments when I’m hardest on myself.

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Staying home with children is the tougher job, no doubt about it…but it’s also the most rewarding position in life! Every Mommy is built differently, some Moms may prefer to return to work shortly after giving birth, some may not have a choice in the matter and others make many sacrifices so they can stay home. Now that I’ve taken a look from both sides, I can see all the pros and cons…and I understand both sides of the debate and the unique set of #MommyProblems as it relates to #MommyGuilt.

The one thing I know I need to do, that all us Moms need to do…is to ease up on ourselves. Whether it’s due to guilt of having to go to work, or not being able to take the kids to playgrounds, play dates and classes as often as we’d like. Maybe your guilt stems from not being able to breastfeed or letting the kids watch too much TV. From feeding them junk food or leaving them with a babysitter..maybe even when we raise our voices (and yell), a little too loud…as Moms we need to pat ourselves on the back and give a little more credit — we’re doing the best we can, because it’s not easy being a Mom and we shouldn’t have to bear the burden of Mommy Guilt all the time!

T is for Teething

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My younger son is 15 months…and he only has TWO teeth! Yep, just 2, his bottom 2 center teeth. Now, I guess it’s not that unusual, but compared to his older brother who pretty much had a full mouth of chompers by the time he turned 1…we’re kinda wondering when baby bro is going to get any more??!! And — maybe the bigger (scarier) question in Mommy and Daddy’s mind is…are they all going to come in at the SAME time!?!? That sounds painful just typing it.

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Isaiah had been “drooly” since about 3 months, but as the months went by, nothing. When he finally hit 8 months the bottom two erupted and we were certain the rest would sprout one by one to fill out his gummy smile, just as Raef’s had the year before. Then as he approached his 1st birthday, we kept expecting more teeth, but no, nothing yet. We’ve had the cool teethers in the fridge on standby and kept Sophie the Giraffe nearby for any spontaneous gnawing. The Camilla and teething tablets are always within an arms reach, along with Baby Advil, in case the teeth start to show up…but we are still waiting! ha! The pediatrician says not to worry, because they will all probably just come within the same month. Oh joy! LOL!

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The good news in this, is it hasn’t delayed his eating abilities. We do take extra caution to make sure everything is soft or cut small enough, since he’s only got the pair on the bottom. At 15 months young, his appetite is healthy, checking in at 30 pounds and 33 inches, he’s the size of an average 22 month old…he’s a BIG BOY! I haven’t done too much to wean him off the bottle or pacifier, although I know I should enforce that soon…but it’s like he doesn’t have any teeth to decay! j/k! And interestingly enough, brushing teeth is one of his favorite things to do, but it’s pretty easy, when you only have 2!! 🙂

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Here are a couple facts to cut your teeth on:

  • A baby’s first tooth usually comes in somewhere between 4 and 8 months
  • Between ages 1 and 3, your child will grow his full set of 20 teeth

Donating CORD Blood

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Cord Blood banking seems to be big business these days. I have to admit, I didn’t know much about the subject prior to ever becoming pregnant, but from your first visit to the OB/GYN you start seeing all the ads, flyers and paraphernalia related to it. And — as any dutiful parent would do, I took the time to look into it a little bit (the first time around), and talked it over with my other half, to see if it was something we felt was necessary for our child.

What is cord blood banking? Breaking it down into the simplest of terms, it is the collecting and storing of stem cell rich blood from a newborn baby’s umbilical cord for possible future medical use by the child, family member or unrelated patient in need of a stem cell transplant.

There is still lots of medical research being conducted surrounding the use of stem cells, and it seems the benefits can be invaluable in certain situations. The cost to do this can be pricey, especially considering that you may have just footed the bill for the maternity term, and delivery…and it’s sort of something you can store (privately), because you never know when a situation may come up where you would need the stem cells. Another thing to think about is that (we were told), you wouldn’t necessarily use it for the baby you just had, but perhaps another child (you birth) down the road who may need it.  At any rate, we decided not to buy into this service, but did decide to try and help other families in need, by donating the cord blood.

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So, I did more research about how and where to donate the cord blood. I found out that my chosen hospital for delivery did not have a system in place to automatically donate, so I had to find an outside organization that would be able to collect the blood. There was a ton of forms to fill out, and in the pages of questions, I had to disclose all kinds of info related to race, travel and family background…sort of like when you do “regular” blood donation, plus a little more. Donation or not, there will be lots of forms to fill out and you need to make the decision and have the collection set up a good amount of time before your due date, so don’t delay if you’re thinking about it.  As the time came closer to deliver my baby, I really felt great about my decision to donate the cord blood. I knew that since my child is of mixed race, it made the donation that much more important because it’d be in the “minority.”

When D-Day came, I made sure the CORD blood donation kit was packed with all my other hospital stuff. I made sure the doctor and nurses were aware of my intention to donate and that it went in with me for delivery. Well, I distinctly recall my nurse telling me who there was lots of IT to donate and how it was really good blood. I chuckle now, but I guess in hospitals, that’s just how they talk about that kind of stuff. Anyway, I say all this to say that in the end, the donation did not go as planned. Since my child was born late at night on the eve of Independence Day, there was no one available to pick it up on a holiday! We attempted to refrigerate it for pick up the following day, but they couldn’t accept it because it has to be stored a special way. So, although my intention was there, the final step wasn’t completed because my baby was (almost) born on the 4th of July.

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That was summer of 2012, so maybe the company has addressed the holiday “pick up” issue now, and/or maybe it was just the one organization I selected. Like I said, some hospitals have partnerships and programs set up to automatically collect the CORD blood for private use or donation, so if it’s something you want to do, make sure to plan in advance and find out what your facility can do to help you bank the cord blood.

The Post-Prego Pooch

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It’s been nearly 15 months since I was last pregnant, and while I’ve basically gotten back to my pre-pregnancy weight, I am definitely not in my pre-prego shape! Okay, so I wasn’t in super tip top condition when I became pregnant the first time, but if my memory serves me correctly, there wasn’t as much “overhang” aka “muffin top” oozing out the top of the exact same pairs of jeans in my closet. Moms I know you hear me…it’s tough to adjust to the body changes during and after pregnancy…  and yes, we all would love to magically shrink down to a small waist…with a flat tummy. The fact is we’re all different and while I have some girlfriends who really have AMAZING physiques…the majority really have to work HARD to get back to where they started.

I also have this theory that since I had surgery for a c-section, the inner incision is sort of keeping my “pooch” up. If you’re not familiar, this is what I’m talking about, the outer incision is low, in your bikini area…but there’s also an inner incision, where they cut to get the baby out of your uterus. Now, when I look at my  body, while there’s only one scar down below, there also seems to be “divide” where I have the “overhang” and that’s where I imagine the inner incision to be! Maybe I’m way off base, but I’m thinking that is not helping me smooth the belly FLAT! I mean it’s like I have a constant food baby hanging off my midsection.

I know, I know…regular exercise and eating right are what will ultimately help me get to my desired shape. I’m working on it. I need to really block out the time to go to the gym and put in the work. I could also lighten up on my cookie intake – which isn’t that bad…BUT probably isn’t helping my cause either. So, c-section mamas, tell me what you think about my “theory” and if you’d have success flattening it out, what worked for you? And for all the other mamas, how did you flatten it out and tighten it up??

Here’s another post regarding my C-Section experience >> Scar by C-Section

Build-A-Bear Workshop

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The boys and I recently made a trip to Build-A Bear…and while I think they may still be on the young side for the “experience,” it was still a worthwhile and fun outing. If you’re not familiar, you’ve probably walked by one of these stores at the mall, it’s a chain store, so they have them everywhere… and the process to “build a bear,” is actually pretty cool!! 😉

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First you pick out a bear (or other “animal” ready for stuffing), and then you can fill it with scents, sounds and you even give ’em a heart. We chose a standard brown bear for Isaiah and he chose a “heart” for his new friend. Then they have a “stuffing” machine where they stuff the bear with its filling and any other extras…we chose to keep it simple with just a heart.  (Honestly, my children do not need to add to the toys that make noise collection! lol). I had to guide Isaiah on what to do, since he was thinking he could eat the heart! ha!

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Then there’s  a station where you wash and groom your new bear….

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As you can see in the photos above, there is a foot pedal your child can step on when bear gets into the tub…it activates the “air” to bathe and brush the bear. He had gotten a BAB for his first Christmas, so we just got his bear a new outfit and he was good as new! Raef decided to do the bear bath, after we dressed his bear. Side note, when it came time to choose an outfit and dress the bear, Raef thought the clothes were for him, so he took off his shirt…and refused to put it back on…hence his undershirt!

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There’s a lot of wardrobe to choose from — it can be overwhelming, we went with basketball and football apparel. When you get ready to checkout, they place your bear in a cute box made to look like a house. You can also get a birth certificate for your bear, along with all kinds of accessories like sunglasses, cars, tiara’s, etc… I would definitely recommend doing this with your child, just beware of the costs, because it can get pricey with all the add-on’s and temptation to buy “cute bear stuff.”

 

 

 

 

Picking a Pediatrictian

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When it comes to picking a pediatrician, there are lots of factors to consider, and as a parent it’s something you should take seriously. If you’re a healthy adult, you probably don’t have to worry about spending too much time at the doctor, and when you do get sick or need to find care, it’s easy enough to look one up. However, when you’re bringing a little one into the world or moving to a new location, finding a person or practice to care for your little ones should be top priority.

The first time I became pregnant, I did my best to follow the generic timelines that were out there for prenatal care and preparation for baby. So, when it comes to finding the pediatrician who will be giving your baby his frequent first check-ups, it’s best to “shop around” before baby arrives. I guess the guideline is to have one in place by the 8 month mark…and you may think that’s too early, but better to be prepared in case your bundle of joy makes an early appearance. A great place to start is by asking friends and family who they use. Other factors to consider are things like age and sex of the doctor, location of the office, what hospital affiliations they have, along with days & hours of operation.

Your first time out, you may not think you have a strong opinion on some of those details, but if you work full time and need evening and/or weekend hours, that can be a deal-breaker. Do you prefer a one person practice, or are you okay using an office with a group of doctors. And when it comes to the age of the doctor, do you want someone who may be more experienced and traditional, or a younger doctor who can likely be your child’s provider until they reach 18!? You may also want to know if the pediatrician is reachable via text, mobile or email… Find out what the after-hours procedures are and ask about their philosophy on anti-antibiotics and prescriptions. Make sure the doc’s perspective and practices are along the lines of what you are comfortable with.

We really liked our first pediatrician. She ran her own practice out of a home converted into “Kidstown Pediatrics” in a trendy up and coming area of Miami. Her office offered an alternative immunization schedule for baby’s first year, spread out over several months, so baby would only get a few at a time, rather than 6 in one shot…excuse the pun! We also liked that she was younger, easy to talk to and offered some weekend and evening hours. And actually during my hunt, I had come across yelp reviews for her that were mixed and despite a couple of them complaining she had long wait times and this and that…that was never my experience with her and I’m glad I didn’t listen to the reviews and met her while still expecting baby #1. I had interviewed one other possible pediatrician and from the moment I walked into her office, I knew she’d be our best choice.

So, when we recently moved and we had to find another pediatrician for my boys, I thought about what things I liked about the one we had to leave. This time we selected an office with a group of pediatricians, but within the practice we were able to select a main doctor who will see each son for all his wellness visits, so there is consistency there… However, the bigger factors here are this office is open 7 days a week with evening hours and they are located just a few blocks from our residence. Now, after attending a couple appointments there, the staff has always been friendly and competent…and the waits haven’t been bad at all! So, I think we’ll stick with this one!